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Guides & tools

Ideas for making more room for connection, whether you have five minutes or a whole evening. Start with what is available now; find updates on the books we are still writing below.

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Free · Online guide

12 Types of Intimacy

Read Dee's prompts on different ways couples connect. Use one question as a conversation starter tonight.

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Free · Interactive

Date Night Spark

Answer three questions and get a date idea, a simple plan, and a text you can send.

Make a date plan
Free · Interactive

Connection Check-In

Fifteen questions to reflect on your relationship. The result is a conversation starter, not a diagnosis.

Take the check-in

On the writing desk

Books & guides in progress

These titles are being prepared. We will add a reading or purchase link when each final edition is ready.

In progress · Dee's guide

The Spicy Text Playbook

Dee's practical guide to playful, respectful connection by text. The finished edition and purchase details are still being prepared.

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In progress · Josh's book

Modern Romance

Josh's perspective on thoughtful romance and partnership. The final edition is in progress.

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In progress · Free guide

Date Night at Home

A practical night-in guide is on our list. For a date idea you can use today, try the free Date Night Spark.

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Good conversations start gently.

Our guides and tools are for education and reflection. They do not provide counseling, therapy, diagnosis, or crisis care. Dee has a master's degree in counseling; she is not a licensed counselor. If you need clinical support, reach out to a licensed professional in your area.